A 30-year-old woman faces anxiety about attending a destination milestone birthday party for a mutual friend, where she will encounter a former friend who once cruelly insulted her and another friend during a night of heavy drinking.The friend, now married with two children, mocked their single status and suggested their lives were lesser without husbands and families.The woman and her friend cut off the conversation, with no apology or resolution.She now seeks advice on how to handle the reunion without drama, confrontation, or pretending everything is fine.Columnist Rebecca Eckler advises treating the former friend like a stranger, maintaining politeness, and setting clear boundaries.She emphasizes avoiding emotional conversations, excusing oneself if needed, and staying focused on celebrating the mutual friend.Eckler also warns about the potential for alcohol to lower inhibitions and suggests planning ahead to maintain self-control.The article highlights the importance of self-respect and emotional resilience in navigating awkward social situations.