Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem's divorce proceedings were revealed during a family birthday party in South Dakota, according to her mother Corinne Arnold.

The event, described as 'excruciating,' saw Noem abruptly end the celebration after learning her husband Bryon Noem had been living a 'secret double life' involving alleged fetish activities.

Arnold disclosed that Bryon had moved out of their home and shared details about the confrontation, which included Noem's refusal to discuss their marital issues until confronted by her mother.

The revelation marks the end of a 34-year marriage for Noem, who recently faced political turmoil after being fired by President Donald Trump and demoted to a smaller agency.Additional controversies include allegations of an affair with aide Corey Lewandowski, which both deny.Arnold emphasized that Kristi would never engage in such behavior, stating it contradicts her upbringing.The incident highlights the personal struggles of high-profile figures amid public scrutiny.