Dr Njabulo James Nkosi's book 'Father of Man' explores the modern crisis of masculinity, arguing that men are not born but built through conscious choices.

The author reflects on his personal journey, influenced by his father's legacy, marriage, and fatherhood, highlighting the pressures men face in balancing responsibility and authenticity.He emphasizes the need for 'better men' rather than perfect ones, addressing themes like confusion, grief, and societal expectations.The book blends personal narrative with societal critique, urging readers to confront their own flaws while navigating life's challenges.

Nkosi acknowledges the difficulties of writing under pressure, balancing work, family, and self-reflection, while advocating for honesty and self-confrontation as essential to becoming a grounded, trustworthy man.

The work challenges traditional notions of masculinity, offering a raw and introspective look at what it means to be a man in contemporary South Africa.