Paula Kajala, a prominent Kenyan socialite, was captured on camera during her mother Frida Kajala's birthday celebration expressing deep emotional distress.In a raw moment shared online, Paula tearfully addressed her mother, urging her to choose happiness over living a painful life.

The video, which went viral, showed Paula clutching a personalized fan-shaped photo cutout while her mother, dressed in a red fur coat, comforted her before embracing her.

Speaking directly to Frida, Paula said, "Unaniumiza" (You are hurting me), emphasizing the need for her mother to prioritize self-care and happiness.The emotional outburst comes amid rumors about Frida's potential split from her boyfriend Harmonize, who proposed to her in February 2026.Fans and social media users reacted strongly, with many empathizing with Paula's plea.

The incident highlights the public scrutiny of celebrity relationships and personal struggles, as well as the impact of emotional vulnerability on audiences.