The article explores shifting sexual behaviours among younger Australians, highlighting factors like increased singledom, technology replacing face-to-face interaction, and lower alcohol consumption.

It features individuals like Aston, a 24-year-old with autism spectrum disorder who hasn't had sexual contact since his five-year relationship ended, and Alyssa, who found her sex life unaffected by lockdowns but later prioritised emotional intimacy.

Clinical psychologist Daniel Brown notes that being in relationships correlates with more frequent sexual activity, while younger generations are delaying long-term partnerships.

Mental health challenges, antidepressants affecting libido, and a 'retreat into the digital world' are cited as barriers to forming intimate connections.

The piece also examines how media messages about female empowerment normalised casual sex but led some, like Alyssa, to re-evaluate their relationship with intimacy.Gené, a 24-year-old counselling student, prioritises career and mental health over sex, finding fulfillment in non-traditional forms of connection.

The article suggests a cultural shift toward intentional, relationship-driven sexuality rather than transactional encounters, with some men grappling with identity in a changing dating landscape.